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The Solo Mom Bloom Room

Coaching + community for women considering having a baby by themselves as a Single Mom By Choice (SMBC).

New Group Starting July 17, 2024

This program is for you if you:

  • yearn to have a baby but you haven't found a partner
  • can feel your biological clock is ticking and you're panicking about what to do
  • feel overwhelmed by the idea of having a baby alone
  • want support + guidance as you research options and concerns about becoming a single mom
  • feel freaked out by using a sperm donor
  • feel isolated + wish you could find a group of supportive women to share the journey with
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The Solo Mom Bloom Room is an intimate cohort (max 8 women) who will journey together for three months.

In this cohort, program, you'll deeply connect with a circle of women who are considering the SMBC path or in the early stages of trying to get pregnant or adopt.

We'll navigate the emotional, practical, and logistical aspects of single motherhood by choice together, in a safe and empowering space.

How The Program Works

  • Intentional Intimacy: We keep our groups small (8 women max) and consistent over 3 months (6 sessions, meeting twice a month) to foster deep connection and trust.


  • Real Talk, Real Support: These aren't just coaching sessions; they're facilitated discussions where we share experiences, resources, and support - Consider it a digital soul circle, where vulnerability and connection are celebrated.


  • Beyond the Six Weeks: The connection doesn't end when the initial sessions do. You can decide to continue with your group with access to a private online community to continue conversations and connections, build relationships with women from other groups, and expand your SMC network.


You'll Gain

  • A Circle of Trust: Form deep, authentic connections with women who become your sounding board, your cheerleaders, and your lifelong friends.


  • Shared Wisdom & Resources: Benefit from the collective knowledge and experiences of the group, gaining valuable insights and practical tips.


  • A Sense of Belonging: Step into single motherhood knowing you have a tribe behind you, ready to celebrate your wins and offer support through challenges.


  • A Feeling of Success: Imagine feeling seen, heard, and understood every step of the way.

About the Coach

Sarah Kowalski Single Mom By Choice Coach + Author

I’m Sarah Kowalski, Single Mom by Choice, Fertility Doula, Life Coach and author. I coach women who are struggling to conceive a child when it's not taking shape as planned -- either because of the lack of a partner or fertility issues.

My own arduous path to motherhood, inspired me to combine my expertise as a life coach, lawyer and patient's rights advocate with my passion for teaching mind body practices such as Feldenkrais and Qigong. Through this unique blend of training and experience, I help women quiet the voice of doubt and redefine what it means to be a mother so they can embrace their unique path to motherhood.

✔️ Creating communities has always been my passion; it's what I naturally do. I'm blessed to have made this my job so you can build lasting connections and share valuable resources. In our moderated community, you’ll feel supported and understood as you explore this path.
✔️I've guided hundreds of women through this process and have seen and heard it all. I can help you quickly process your concerns and navigate the logistical steps, saving you time, resources, and stress. Let me support you in crafting a path that's uniquely yours.
✔️I've curated the best resources for you, saving you from endless hours of chasing potentially misleading information on Google or Facebook groups. Get accurate, tailored support without the hassle.

The SMBC Bloom Room

  • Alternating Weds. 5pm-6:30pm PST (Check exact dates)
  • Six 90-minute Zoom meetings (over 3 months)
  • 24/7 access to exclusive and private online discussion room with your cohort, for the duration of the course
  • Expert and personal guidance from professional SMBC Coach, Sarah Kowalski
  • 3-month Motherhood Reimagined Membership (includes access to All SMBC Meetings, general member forum, interviews + basic guides, and more)   $141 additional value
  • 10% off Individual Coaching Sessions (one-on-one with Sarah) for the duration of the program
  • This intimate group of up to 8 women launches on July 17th, and stays together for this 3-month program (your personal "cohort"). You'll create lasting relationships with these like-minded women throughout your journey
  • Perfect for women who are contemplating single motherhood or just starting out but want to process parts of the choice

Program Topics

Conversation topics are driven by the personal interests of your cohort. Common topics include:

1. What do I want?

Gain clarity about what you truly want

We will work with recurring doubt, regrets, and grief over not finding a partner. Doubts are normal but let's look at how you are relating to them. 

2. Can I make single motherhood by choice work for me?

Dive into the details of being a single mom by choice

Financial–can I afford it?⁠
Can I handle it?⁠
Is it fair to my child?⁠
How do I choose a sperm donor?
How do I talk to my child about donor conception? ⁠
How do I deal with negative opinions of others–unsupportive family or others⁠
Will I be single forever if I have a baby on my own? 
What if I'm not ready to stop dating? 
How do I get started and navigate doctors and all the lingo? 

3. How Do I Navigate My Options and Make a Plan?

Understand the process and options.

What should you be thinking about as you prepare to take the leap?⁠

What are your options for getting pregnant?⁠

How to pick a sperm bank and sperm donor?⁠

How can you start improving your fertility?⁠



"Before I joined the Thinkers group I had many fears and unanswered questions. I was frustrated since I've been seriously contemplating what to do with my frozen eggs for over a year. Having Sarah’s expertise along with a place to process my emotions and concerns in a community of other women gave me momentum. In just one month of the group, I have decided to move forward with trying. I wished I had joined sooner!! It would have saved me a year of trying to figure it out on my own!"

— Lorena

"Before I started working with Sarah, I was really afraid to give up on partnership and parenting happening together. I knew it would take work to get to a place I wanted to go. Now, I’m pregnant and I have far less fear. This decision feels so right and my life feels full of love and support. Having Sarah by my side while I explored the path to single parenthood was invaluable. "

— Meg

"After feeling stuck for a year, Sarah helped me manage my emotions, uncertainty and doubt and expertly guided me to a strong place where I finally felt ready to take the next steps to becoming an SMC."

— S.E.
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Motherhood Reimagined reveals what happens when we release what's expected and embrace what's possible.

This honest and informative memoir examines the issues facing both single moms by choice and any woman facing fertility issues and third party reproduction.

Motherhood Reimagined answers many questions such as: Why would someone decide to have a baby alone? How does one come to terms with not having a genetic link to her child? How can infertility be a means for personal growth and spiritual awakening?

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