This program is for you if you:
- yearn to have a baby but you haven't found a partner
- can feel your biological clock is ticking and you're panicking about what to do
- feel overwhelmed by the idea of having a baby alone
- want support + guidance as you research options and concerns about becoming a single mom
- feel freaked out by using a sperm donor
- feel isolated + wish you could find a group of supportive women to share the journey with
The Solo Mom Bloom Room is an intimate cohort (max 8 women) who will journey together for three months.
In this cohort, program, you'll deeply connect with a circle of women who are considering the SMBC path or in the early stages of trying to get pregnant or adopt.
We'll navigate the emotional, practical, and logistical aspects of single motherhood by choice together, in a safe and empowering space.
How The Program Works
- Intentional Intimacy: We keep our groups small (8 women max) and consistent over 3 months (6 sessions, meeting twice a month) to foster deep connection and trust.
- Real Talk, Real Support: These aren't just coaching sessions; they're facilitated discussions where we share experiences, resources, and support - Consider it a digital soul circle, where vulnerability and connection are celebrated.
- Beyond the Six Weeks: The connection doesn't end when the initial sessions do. You can decide to continue with your group with access to a private online community to continue conversations and connections, build relationships with women from other groups, and expand your SMC network.
You'll Gain
- A Circle of Trust: Form deep, authentic connections with women who become your sounding board, your cheerleaders, and your lifelong friends.
- Shared Wisdom & Resources: Benefit from the collective knowledge and experiences of the group, gaining valuable insights and practical tips.
- A Sense of Belonging: Step into single motherhood knowing you have a tribe behind you, ready to celebrate your wins and offer support through challenges.
- A Feeling of Success: Imagine feeling seen, heard, and understood every step of the way.
About the Coach
I’m Sarah Kowalski, Single Mom by Choice, Fertility Doula, Life Coach and author. I coach women who are struggling to conceive a child when it's not taking shape as planned -- either because of the lack of a partner or fertility issues.
My own arduous path to motherhood, inspired me to combine my expertise as a life coach, lawyer and patient's rights advocate with my passion for teaching mind body practices such as Feldenkrais and Qigong. Through this unique blend of training and experience, I help women quiet the voice of doubt and redefine what it means to be a mother so they can embrace their unique path to motherhood.
- Six 90-min Zoom meetings
- Choose a goal and get accountability and support
- 3-month membership in The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community
- Private online Classroom for connections
- 10% off Private Coaching Sessions w/Sarah
- All meetings recorded and available for 1 month after Bloom Room ends
- Dates: Oct 2nd, Oct 16, Oct 30; Nov 6 , Nov. 20, Dec 4
Program Topics
Conversation topics are driven by the personal interests of your cohort. Common topics include:
1. What do I want?
Gain clarity about what you truly want
We will work with recurring doubt, regrets, and grief over not finding a partner. Doubts are normal but let's look at how you are relating to them.
2. Can I make single motherhood by choice work for me?
Dive into the details of being a single mom by choice
Financial–can I afford it?
Can I handle it?
Is it fair to my child?
How do I choose a sperm donor?
How do I talk to my child about donor conception?
How do I deal with negative opinions of others–unsupportive family or others
Will I be single forever if I have a baby on my own?
What if I'm not ready to stop dating?
How do I get started and navigate doctors and all the lingo?
3. How Do I Navigate My Options and Make a Plan?
Understand the process and options.
What should you be thinking about as you prepare to take the leap?
What are your options for getting pregnant?
How to pick a sperm bank and sperm donor?
How can you start improving your fertility?
A Client Case Study
"For years, I struggled with the decision to become a Single Mother by Choice. I felt stuck and unsure how to move forward. Joining Sarah's support group and Community was a turning point in my journey. I became so much more informed about the realities and complexities of the IVF process, which helped me identify and overcome the roadblocks that were holding me back.
Through the online discussions, expert interviews, and abundant resources within the Community platform, I gained invaluable knowledge and a sense of empowerment. I was finally able to ask informed questions, advocate for myself, and make confident decisions about my fertility journey.
This newfound clarity allowed me to choose a new lab and clinic that felt right for me. I was able to advocate for specific tests and procedures, including a mock trial for implantation and a workup to rule out silent endometriosis, which ultimately increased my chances of a successful transfer. I even felt empowered to switch fertility doctors and found a higher quality clinic and lab, all thanks to the resources and support from Sarah's Community.
Most importantly, I found a community of like-minded women who understood my journey and helped me let go of the shame I had been carrying. This community became my lifeline. Joining Sarah's Community was the best investment I made on this journey. It saved me time, money, and so much stress. I can't recommend it enough! And, thanks to the knowledge and support I gained, I am now pregnant and about to give birth! Thank you, Sarah, for everything."
WHAT CLIENTS SAY?
KIND WORDS FROM MY LOVELY CLIENTS
"Before I joined the Thinkers group I had many fears and unanswered questions. I was frustrated since I've been seriously contemplating what to do with my frozen eggs for over a year. Having Sarah’s expertise along with a place to process my emotions and concerns in a community of other women gave me momentum. In just one month of the group, I have decided to move forward with trying. I wish I had joined sooner!! It would have saved me a year of trying to figure it out on my own!"
"Before I joined Sarah’s Community, I was struggling with a decision to move forward with becoming a SMC. I had been stuck for so many years but the group helped me become so much more informed so that I understood what was holding me back.
I let go of the shame of wanting to be an SMBC and I was exposed to tons of resources that made me feel so empowered and knowledgeable.”
"Before I started working with Sarah, I was really afraid to give up on partnership and parenting happening together. I knew it would take work to get to a place I wanted to go. Now, I’m pregnant and I have far less fear. This decision feels so right and my life feels full of love and support. Having Sarah by my side while I explored the path to single parenthood was invaluable. "
"After feeling stuck for a year, Sarah helped me manage my emotions, uncertainty and doubt and expertly guided me to a strong place where I finally felt ready to take the next steps to becoming an SMC."
"I wish I had known about Sarah’s group five years ago when I first went to a fertility doctor. I would have been so much more informed and would have done things differently. Sarah’s Community was the best investment I made in this process. If I had joined sooner, I would have saved so much time, money and stress.” "
A STORY OF PERSONAL TRIUMPH & UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
Motherhood Reimagined reveals what happens when we release what's expected and embrace what's possible.
This honest and informative memoir examines the issues facing both single moms by choice and any woman facing fertility issues and third party reproduction.
Motherhood Reimagined answers many questions such as: Why would someone decide to have a baby alone? How does one come to terms with not having a genetic link to her child? How can infertility be a means for personal growth and spiritual awakening?
