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Become The Badass Mother You Know You’re Meant To Be

Coaching and community for every stage of the single mom by choice (SMC) journey.

Sarah kowalski smc life coach

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Are you single? But you want to be a mom?

is single motherhood right for me

Are you?

  • Wondering if you’re ready and capable to navigate motherhood alone?


  • Feeling time pressured to make a choice about becoming a single mom before your fertility runs out?


  • Coping with the intense emotional ups and downs of actually trying to get pregnant on your own?


  • Struggling to find people who really understand what you’re going through? 

I get it. Giving up on the dream of partnership to have a baby on your own is overwhelming, isolating and confusing.

Many women dream of becoming a mother but aren’t sure they are ready to become a single mom by choice. Motherhood Reimagined provides coaching and community for every stage of the journey, so that you can become the confident badass mother you know you were always meant to be. 

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Find your community

Feel safe and supported

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Save time and money

Stop the indecision and feel ready to take action


Feel empowered

Get a clear path to becoming a mother

Becoming an SMC is a legitimate first choice,

but you don't need to do it alone.

















Where inspiration meets practical guidance

Listen up ladies, you can be an amazing mother regardless of your relationship status. 


Becoming an SMC is a legitimate first choice, not just a backup plan and I’m on a mission to show you why. 

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✓ I combine my training as a life coach, fertility doula and lawyer to help you navigate the emotional ups and downs. 


✓ I show up for my client’s like nobody’s business.  I’ve got your back for every step of the journey. 


✓ Together we will quiet the voices of doubt and indecision that are dead set on holding you back.

How It Works

 1. Schedule a free call.

We’ll chat about where you are in your journey and provide you some insight.


2. Get the support you need.

Find support groups tailored to you-- whether you're still thinking, trying to conceive (TTC) or already pregnant.


3. Become a badass mother.

Experience the joy of motherhood with a tribe of other SMC's. 




There were so many moments when I struggled to let others support me on my journey, but Sarah is the one support that never feels hard - she listens, she shines light and shows me possibilities, but she never judges.  She's helped me reconnect to my desire to become a mom, reminding me why becoming a single mom by choice doesn't need to be a second choice option, but rather another amazing way to become a mom. I truly can't imagine being on this journey without her. Anna














I Support Women Through Every Stage of The Journey

Thinking about having a baby alone

Trying to conceive alone

Contemplating egg donation or adoption

Pregnant and solo

Mothering solo

Become a Member

$ 9.97 /Month
  • The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community
    (reg $19.97/month)
  • Guest Expert Interviews
    (w/ Live Q&A)
  • SMC Panel Discussions
  • Community Forum

Become a Member

$ 9.97 /Month
  • Founder's Rate $9.97/month
    The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community
    (reg $19.97/month)
    Guest Expert Interviews (w/ Live Q&A)
    SMC Panel Discussions
    Community Forum
  • The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community

Become a Member

$ 9.97 /Month
  • Founder's Rate $9.97/month
    The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community
    (reg $19.97/month)
    Guest Expert Interviews (w/ Live Q&A)
    SMC Panel Discussions
    Community Forum
  • The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community

1. Become a Member

Founder's Rate $9.97/month

The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community

(reg $19.97/month)

 Guest Expert Interviews (w/Live Q&A)

SMC Panel Discussions

Community Forum


2. Group Coaching Support

Intimate groups to support you at every stage of the journey. 

Space available for Triers--message me for details


The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community

Weekly 90-minute Zoom calls

Community forum w/ your group

Resource Library

3. Individual Coaching

Partner with me to process your emotional concerns and tackle the logistics. 


The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community 

Two 60-minute coaching calls

Text support for anything that comes up

Resource Library



sarah kowalski, fertility doula, single mom by choice life coach


Single Mother by Choice, Life Coach, author and founder of Motherhood Reimagined.™

I’m Sarah Kowalski, Single Mom by Choice, Fertility Doula, Life Coach and author. I coach women who are struggling to conceive a child when it's not taking shape as planned -- either because of the lack of a partner or fertility issues.

My own arduous path to motherhood, inspired me to combine my expertise as a life coach, lawyer and patient's rights advocate with my passion for teaching mind body practices such as Feldenkrais and Qigong. Through this unique blend of training and experience, I help women quiet the voice of doubt and redefine what it means to be a mother so they can embrace their unique path to motherhood.

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Motherhood Reimagined reveals what happens when we release what's expected and embrace what's possible.

This honest and informative memoir examines the issues facing both single moms by choice and any woman facing fertility issues and third party reproduction.

Motherhood Reimagined answers many questions such as: Why would someone decide to have a baby alone? How does one come to terms with not having a genetic link to her child? How can infertility be a means for personal growth and spiritual awakening?

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You deserve to feel clear, confident and supported as you navigate your single mom by choice journey.

Don’t let indecision and overwhelm prevent you from becoming the badass mama you’re meant to be. 

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