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Become The Badass Mother You Know You’re Meant To Be

Coaching and community for every stage of the single mom by choice (SMC) journey.

Sarah Kowalski SMC

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Are you single? But you want to be a mom?

Many women dream of becoming a mother but aren’t sure they are ready to become a single mom by choice.

I get it. Giving up on the dream of partnership to have a baby on your own is overwhelming, isolating and confusing.

Motherhood Reimagined provides coaching and community for every stage of the journey, so that you can become the confident badass mother you know you were always meant to be.

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Thinking About Becoming A Single Mom By Choice

Are you worried about your fertility and trying to figure out if you want to be a single mom by choice? 

Maybe you're wondering if you are ready and capable of navigating motherhood alone? 

And you are worried that if you have a baby alone, you'll never find a partner. 

Friends and family might be encouraging you to wait a little longer to find a partner but you know that fertility is finite and that you long to be a mom. 

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Trying to Conceive

Are you ready to start trying to conceive and feeling a mix of overwhelm and excitement? 

Are you coping with the intense emotional ups and downs of trying to conceive? 

Are you struggling to find people who really understand what you are going through? 

You don't have to do this alone. I offer several support groups for women who are trying. 

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Egg or Embryo Donor

Have you been trying to get pregnant for a while but it's not working? 

Or, maybe because of your age you know that you are going to need to use donor eggs or embryos if you want to have a child.

You're wondering if this is what you want and you're grieving the genetic connection to your future child? 

You're overwhelmed by options and not sure how to navigate them? 

It's a big step to move onto a donor egg or embryo, but it's much easier to process with a group of women who are at the same place. 

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Pregnant and Solo

Congratulations you're pregnant! But you feel vulnerable and want someone to share these experiences with. 

You dread going to a childbirth education class with a bunch of couples. 

You want to connect to other pregnant single moms and share your experiences. 

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Find your community

Feel safe and supported with us by your side

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Save time and money

Stop the indecision and feel ready to take action

feel empowered to have a baby on your own

Feel empowered

Get a clear path to becoming a mother

Becoming an SMC is a legitimate first choice,
but you don't need to do it alone.

Where inspiration meets practical guidance

Listen up ladies, you can be an amazing mother regardless of your relationship status.

Becoming an SMC is a legitimate first choice, not just a backup plan and I’m on a mission to show you why.


✓ I combine my training as a life coach, fertility doula and lawyer to help you navigate the emotional ups and downs.


✓ I show up for my client’s like nobody’s business. I’ve got your back for every step of the journey.


✓ Together we will quiet the voices of doubt and indecision that are dead set on holding you back.

How It Works

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1. Schedule a free call.

We’ll chat about where you are in your journey and provide you some insight.

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2. Get the support you need.

Find support groups tailored to you-- whether you're still thinking, trying to conceive (TTC) or already pregnant.

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3. Become a badass mother.

Experience the joy of motherhood with a tribe of other SMC's. 



"Before I joined the Thinkers group I had many fears and unanswered questions. I was frustrated since I've been seriously contemplating what to do with my frozen eggs for over a year. Having Sarah’s expertise along with a place to process my emotions and concerns in a community of other women gave me momentum. In just one month of the group, I have decided to move forward with trying. I wish I had joined sooner!! It would have saved me a year of trying to figure it out on my own!"

— Lorena

"Before I joined Sarah’s Community, I was struggling with a decision to move forward with becoming a SMC. I had been stuck for so many years but the group helped me become so much more informed so that I understood what was holding me back.

I let go of the shame of wanting to be an SMBC and I was exposed to tons of resources that made me feel so empowered and knowledgeable.”

— Melisa S.

"Before I started working with Sarah, I was really afraid to give up on partnership and parenting happening together. I knew it would take work to get to a place I wanted to go. Now, I’m pregnant and I have far less fear. This decision feels so right and my life feels full of love and support. Having Sarah by my side while I explored the path to single parenthood was invaluable. "

— Meg

"After feeling stuck for a year, Sarah helped me manage my emotions, uncertainty and doubt and expertly guided me to a strong place where I finally felt ready to take the next steps to becoming an SMC."

— S.E.

"I wish I had known about Sarah’s group five years ago when I first went to a fertility doctor. I would have been so much more informed and would have done things differently. Sarah’s Community was the best investment I made in this process. If I had joined sooner, I would have saved so much time, money and stress.” "

— Melisa S.

Join the Community

$19.97 $ 14.97 /Month
  • Guest Expert Interviews
    (w/ Live Q&A)
  • SMC Panel Discussions
  • Community Forum
  • Monthly Ask Me Anything Calls
  • Monthly Community Meetups

Group Coaching Support

$ 97 /Month
  • Everything included in The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community
  • Weekly Zoom Calls
  • Private Online Classroom w/ Your Group
    (w/ Live Q&A)

Individual Coaching

$347 /Month
  • Everything included in The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community
  • 2 Private Coaching Calls
  • Continuous WhatsApp Support
sarah kowalski, fertility doula, single mom by choice life coach


Single Mother by Choice, Life Coach, author and founder of Motherhood Reimagined.™

I’m Sarah Kowalski, Single Mom by Choice, Fertility Doula, Life Coach and author. I coach women who are struggling to conceive a child when it's not taking shape as planned -- either because of the lack of a partner or fertility issues.

My own arduous path to motherhood, inspired me to combine my expertise as a life coach, lawyer and patient's rights advocate with my passion for teaching mind body practices such as Feldenkrais and Qigong. Through this unique blend of training and experience, I help women quiet the voice of doubt and redefine what it means to be a mother so they can embrace their unique path to motherhood.

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Motherhood Reimagined reveals what happens when we release what's expected and embrace what's possible.

This honest and informative memoir examines the issues facing both single moms by choice and any woman facing fertility issues and third party reproduction.

Motherhood Reimagined answers many questions such as: Why would someone decide to have a baby alone? How does one come to terms with not having a genetic link to her child? How can infertility be a means for personal growth and spiritual awakening?

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You deserve to feel clear, confident and supported as you navigate your single mom by choice journey.

Don’t let indecision and overwhelm prevent you from becoming the badass mama you’re meant to be.

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