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My Memoir

Motherhood Reimagined: When Becoming A Mother Doesn't Go As Planned

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At the age of thirty-nine, Sarah Kowalski heard her biological clock ticking, loudly. A single woman harboring a deep ambivalence about motherhood, Kowalski needed to decide: Did she want a baby? More importantly, with no partner in sight, did she want to have a baby alone? Once she revised her idea of motherhood—from an experience she would share with a partner to a journey she would embark upon alone—the answer came up a resounding Yes. Kowalski chose to conceive using a sperm donor, but her plan stopped short when a doctor declared her infertile. How far would she go to become a mother? Kowalski catapulted herself into a diligent regimen of herbs, Qigong, meditation, acupuncture and more, in a quest to improve her fertility Along the way, she delved into spiritual healing practices, facing down demons of self-doubt and self-hatred, and once again revising her vision of motherhood. In the end, to become a mother, Kowalski did everything she said she would never do. And yet, she wouldn't change a thing.

A story of personal triumph and unconditional love, Motherhood Reimagined reveals what happens when we release what's expected and embrace what's possible.

Sarah’s honest and informative memoir examines the issues facing both single moms by choice and any woman facing fertility issues and third party reproduction. She offers a personal narrative that speaks for a generation of women who, like the author, thought she had time to have a baby well into her forties and a growing number of women who will not let the lack of a partner stand in the way of having a child. Sarah takes us on her journey in which she examines her choices and surrenders to a completely different vision of motherhood than she had ever imagined, showing us how love prevails.

Her book answers many questions such as: Why would someone decide to have a baby alone? How does one come to terms with not having a genetic link to her child? How can infertility be a means for personal growth and spiritual awakening?

The Motherhood Reimagined Podcast

A Podcast Exploring And Celebrating All Paths To Motherhood

Listen up ladies, you have the right to become a mother regardless of your relationship status. 

 

Becoming an SMC is a legitimate first choice, not just a backup plan and I’m on a mission to show you why. 

motherhood reimagined podcast

The Motherhood Reimagined Podcast, hosted by Sarah Kowalski, celebrates all paths to motherhood. Whether you're contemplating whether to become a single mother by choice, still trying to conceive, or already raising kids, this is the place to be to hear from single moms by choice who didn't follow the rules as they share the heartache and joys of their paths. Each week we interview a choice mom about her journey, or an expert on fertility, donor conception, sperm donation, adoption and more. Get inspiration and support about being a solo mom.

 

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Understanding the Language of Choice Parenting in Today’s Political Climate

Understanding the Language of Choice Parenting in Today’s Political Climate In the wake of the recent re-election of Donald Trump, the socio-political landscape has become increasingly polarized, with various groups feeling the pressure of heightened scrutiny and legislative challenges. Among these groups are those of us who have chosen to become parents independently—a community that,…

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Understanding the Language of Choice Parenting

Understanding the Language of Choice Parenting Today, we’re diving into an important topic that affects many in our community: the terminology used to describe parents who choose to have children on their own. As language evolves and our understanding of diverse family structures grows, it’s crucial to stay informed and sensitive to the nuances in…

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Celebrating a Decade of Empowerment and Resilience: Lessons from Coaching Single Moms by Choice

Celebrating a Decade of Empowerment and Resilience: Lessons from Coaching Single Moms by Choice This year, as I reflected on the past decade of raising my son Aiden as a Single Mom by Choice (SMC), a parallel milestone emerged that has significantly shaped my professional and personal life. Around the same time that I began…

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Why More Women Are Choosing to Become Single Mothers By Choice

Why More Women Are Choosing to Become Single Mothers By Choice For many women, the desire to become a mother is a powerful force. But what happens when you haven’t found the right partner and your biological clock is ticking louder with each passing year?  More and more, women are choosing to take the reins…

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Single Motherhood by Choice: Navigating the Path of Raising Donor-Conceived Children

Navigating the journey of single motherhood by choice comes with unique conversations, especially when it involves raising donor-conceived children. What are some of the pitfalls when raising donor-conceived kids? To delve deeper into this, I had the privilege of speaking with Wendy Kramer, co-founder of the  Donor Sibling Registry. Wendy, who is also the mother…

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A Decade of Love, and Laughter: Lessons from 10 Years as a Single Mom By Choice

A Decade of Love, Laughter, and Lessons: Celebrating 10 Years as an SMC What are the lessons from 10 years as a single mother by choice? As I sit down to reflect, I’m amazed that it’s already been a decade since I gave birth to Aiden.  It feels like just yesterday I was navigating the…

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How to Manage Doubts About Becoming A Single Mom by Choice

Overcoming Doubts About Becoming A Single Mom By Choice (“SMBC”) Embarking on the journey to become a single mom by choice is a bold, brave decision that many women contemplate. It’s a path filled with self-discovery, empowerment, and, admittedly, a fair share of internal debate. So, why do you continually feel yourself filled with doubt…

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What is a Single Mom by Choice?

What is a Single Mom by Choice? The term “single mom by choice” or “SMBC”  often conjures up images of a woman who has it all figured out, confidently choosing motherhood on her own terms. And while that narrative certainly holds true for some, it doesn’t encompass the complex emotions and journeys that many of…

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Why Women Don’t Regret Using An Egg Donor

Why Women Don’t Regret Using An Egg Donor In the realm of fertility treatments, egg donation is often considered a game-changer, offering hope and possibilities to women who dream of becoming mothers. But at first, it can feel overwhelming, maybe even tragic. But I’m here to tell you that I have never met a woman…

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