Are you ready to reimagine motherhood?

Take control of your life. Become the mother you want to be.

Coaching and community for every stage of the single mom by choice (SMC) journey.

Life doesn't always unfold the way we expected, but with an open heart and mind, many things are possible.

In today's world of technology and openness, families come in all shapes and sizes. You get to decide how you want to show up as a mother. Let's discover what's possible.

Individual Coaching, Support Groups, and Community for Every Stage of Your Journey

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The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community

The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community brings together single mothers by choice and those just embarking on their journey so that they can connect, learn and grow together as we bravely forge unconventional paths to motherhood.

It's a safe space where we can share our vulnerabilities, learn from our peers, and get guidance around the journey of single motherhood

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Support Groups

A lot of single women dream of becoming a mother, but aren’t sure how to navigate the unconventional path of conceiving or adopting without a partner. Motherhood Reimagined provides coaching and community to guide you through every stage, so you can stop spinning your wheels and move forward on your journey to motherhood with clarity.

Groups provide a deep dive into topics with an intimate group of like-minded women for ongoing support, resources, and community. Feel heard, gather resources and perspectives.

Weekly 90 minute zoom calls with group

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Individual Coaching

A deep dive into your situation. We co-design our sessions to meet your needs, whether it's trying to decide whether to become a mother on your own, trying to get pregnant, navigating pregnancy or raising your little one. I'm there to support you every step of the way.

Book a free 30 minute discovery call to discuss.

Hi! I’m Sarah Kowalski, Single Mom by Choice, Fertility Doula, Life Coach and author.  I am a go to guide for women who are contemplating single motherhood, having fertility issues or raising donor-conceived children. I inspire them to reconsider what it means to be a mother so they can embrace their unique path to motherhood and get down to being a badass mama.

I combine my personal experience as a Single Mom by Choice,  my 8 years of coaching expertise and my background as a lawyer to help women to cultivate the love, courage and tenacity it takes to conceive and raise a child through unconventional means.


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Sarah Kowalski, Life Coach, Fertility Doula,

Motherhood Reimagined helps women find their way to motherhood even though it may not look anything like what you previously envisioned. The good news is that in today’s world of technology and openness, families come in all shapes and sizes. You get to decide how you want to show up as a mother.

What’s possible is only limited by what you are willing to consider.  I can help you understand and evaluate options, work through the emotional obstacles and feel grounded in your decision—whatever that may be.

My belief is that once your baby arrives, no matter what the means— sperm or egg donor, embryo adoption, surrogacy, or adoption—you will love that baby as your own more than you ever knew possible. Your baby will simply be your sweet perfection.


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You deserve to feel clear, confident and supported as you navigate your single mom by choice journey.

Don’t let indecision and overwhelm prevent you from becoming the badass mama you’re meant to be.

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"Before I joined the Thinkers group I had many fears and unanswered questions. I was frustrated since I've been seriously contemplating what to do with my frozen eggs for over a year. Having Sarah’s expertise along with a place to process my emotions and concerns in a community of other women gave me momentum. In just one month of the group, I have decided to move forward with trying. I wished I had joined sooner!! It would have saved me a year of trying to figure it out on my own!"

— Lorena

"Before I started working with Sarah, I was really afraid to give up on partnership and parenting happening together. I knew it would take work to get to a place I wanted to go. Now, I’m pregnant and I have far less fear. This decision feels so right and my life feels full of love and support. Having Sarah by my side while I explored the path to single parenthood was invaluable. "

— Meg

"After feeling stuck for a year, Sarah helped me manage my emotions, uncertainty and doubt and expertly guided me to a strong place where I finally felt ready to take the next steps to becoming an SMC."

— S.E.

How I Can Help

Join the Community

$19.97 $ 9.97 /Month
  • Guest Expert Interviews
    (w/ Live Q&A)
  • SMC Panel Discussions
  • Community Forum
  • Monthly Ask Me Anything Calls
  • Monthly Community Meetups

Group Coaching Support

$ 97 /Month
  • Everything included in The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community
  • Weekly Zoom Calls
  • Private Online Classroom w/ Your Group
    (w/ Live Q&A)

Individual Coaching

$347 /Month
  • Everything included in The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community
  • 2 Private Coaching Calls
  • Continuous WhatsApp Support
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Motherhood Reimagined reveals what happens when we release what's expected and embrace what's possible.

This honest and informative memoir examines the issues facing both single moms by choice and any woman facing fertility issues and third party reproduction.

Motherhood Reimagined answers many questions such as: Why would someone decide to have a baby alone? How does one come to terms with not having a genetic link to her child? How can infertility be a means for personal growth and spiritual awakening?

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You deserve to feel clear, confident and supported as you navigate your single mom by choice journey.

Don’t let indecision and overwhelm prevent you from becoming the badass mama you’re meant to be.

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