Work With Me - Single Moms by Choice, Infertility and Egg Donors

Are you ready to reimagine motherhood?

Take control of your life. Become the mother you want to be.

Coaching and community for every stage of the single mom by choice (SMC) journey.

Life doesn't always unfold the way we expected, but with an open heart and mind, many things are possible.

In today's world of technology and openness, families come in all shapes and sizes. You get to decide how you want to show up as a mother. Let's discover what's possible.

Individual Coaching, Support Groups, and Community for Every Stage of Your Journey

The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community

The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community brings together single mothers by choice and those just embarking on their journey so that they can connect, learn and grow together as we bravely forge unconventional paths to motherhood. 

It's a safe space where we can share our vulnerabilities, learn from our peers, and get guidance around the journey of single motherhood 

Support Groups

A lot of single women dream of becoming a mother, but aren’t sure how to navigate the unconventional path of conceiving or adopting without a partner. Motherhood Reimagined provides coaching and community to guide you through every stage, so you can stop spinning your wheels and move forward on your journey to motherhood with clarity.

Groups provide a deep dive into topics with an intimate group of like-minded women for ongoing support, resources, and community. Feel heard, gather resources and perspectives.

Weekly 90 minute zoom calls with group

Individual Coaching

A deep dive into your situation. We co-design our sessions to meet your needs, whether it's trying to decide whether to become a mother on your own, trying to get pregnant, navigating pregnancy or raising your little one. I'm there to support you every step of the way. Book a free 30 minute discovery call to discuss.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hi! I’m Sarah Kowalski, Single Mom by Choice, Fertility Doula, Life Coach and author.  I am a go to guide for women who are contemplating single motherhood, having fertility issues or raising donor-conceived children. I inspire them to reconsider what it means to be a mother so they can embrace their unique path to motherhood and get down to being a badass mama.

I combine my personal experience as a Single Mom by Choice,  my 8 years of coaching expertise and my background as a lawyer to help women to cultivate the love, courage and tenacity it takes to conceive and raise a child through unconventional means.

 

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Sarah Kowalski, Life Coach, Fertility Doula,

Motherhood Reimagined helps women find their way to motherhood even though it may not look anything like what you previously envisioned. The good news is that in today’s world of technology and openness, families come in all shapes and sizes. You get to decide how you want to show up as a mother.

What’s possible is only limited by what you are willing to consider.  I can help you understand and evaluate options, work through the emotional obstacles and feel grounded in your decision—whatever that may be.

My belief is that once your baby arrives, no matter what the means— sperm or egg donor, embryo adoption, surrogacy, or adoption—you will love that baby as your own more than you ever knew possible. Your baby will simply be your sweet perfection.

 

The SMC Community

19.97 per month
  • Launching Soon--Join the Waitlist for Special Pricing
  • The SMC Community Forum --connect via location or stage
  • Live Guest Expert Interviews
  • SMC Panel Discussions
  • Access to my most popular courses and content

Thinkers Intensive

$97 per month
  • TBD
  • Discussions of most common concerns facing Thinkers
  • Connect to your motherhood story
  • Weekly 90 minute Zoom group meetings
  • Private online classroom for weekly connection
  • Membership in the SMC Community Forum w/ Guest Experts and Panel Discussions

Solo Pregnancy & Birth

$97 per month
  • Co-taught by Sarah Kowalski and Betsy Freeman (Certified Nurse Midwife)
  • Rolling admissions--join anytime during pregnancy
  • Weekly 90 minute Zoom group meetings
  • Private online classroom for weekly connection
  • Membership in the SMC Community Forum w/ Guest Experts and Panel Discussions
  • Tuesdays 5pm-6:30 CST

Triers (early stages)

$97 per month
  • Wed. 8:45pm-10:15pm CST
  • Weekly 90 minute Zoom group meetings
  • Private online classroom for weekly connection
  • Membership in the SMC Community Forum w/ Guest Experts and Panel Discussions

Triers (later stages)

$97 per month
  • Mondays (6pm 7:30pm CST)
  • Weekly 90 minute Zoom group meetings
  • Private online classroom for weekly connection
  • Membership in the SMC Community Forum w/ Guest Experts and Panel Discussions

Triers (all stages)

$97 per month
  • Tuesdays 7pm-8:30pm CST
  • Weekly 90 minute Zoom group meetings
  • Private online classroom for weekly connection
  • Membership in the SMC Community Forum w/ Guest Experts and Panel Discussions

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You deserve to feel clear, confident and supported as you navigate your single mom by choice journey.

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I can't imagine the journey without Sarah - at every low low or huge obstacle, she's been my thought partner and my cheerleader.  There were so many moments when I struggled to let others support me on my journey, but Sarah was is the one support that never feels hard - she listens, she shines light and shows me possibilities, but she never judges.  When I've been full of self doubt, she's helped me reconnect to my desire to become a mom, reminding me why becoming a single mom by choice doesn't need to be a second choice option, but rather another amazing way to become a mom.  From mantras and visualizations to practical donor websites or which prenatal vitamin to choose, Sarah is full of knowledge.  Her ability to be authentically herself - and allow you to feel completely safe in being authentically yourself is truly a special gift.  Beyond checking in during scheduled times, Sarah is always there for quick questions or a quick boost of optimism, or just to listen to a tough moment without pushing for a solution before I'm ready.  I truly can't imagine being on this journey without her, and I'm incredibly grateful to call her a mentor and friend."

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How I Can Help

1.Community and Resources

Community forum, guest experts and more. 

From $9.97 per month

2. Support Groups

Intimate groups to support you at every stage of the journey

$97/month

 

3. Individual Coaching

Full-service support, tailored to your needs.

$347/month

 

 

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A STORY OF PERSONAL TRIUMPH & UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

Motherhood Reimagined reveals what happens when we release what's expected and embrace what's possible.

This honest and informative memoir examines the issues facing both single moms by choice and any woman facing fertility issues and third party reproduction.

Motherhood Reimagined answers many questions such as: Why would someone decide to have a baby alone? How does one come to terms with not having a genetic link to her child? How can infertility be a means for personal growth and spiritual awakening?

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You deserve to feel clear, confident and supported as you navigate your single mom by choice journey.

Don’t let indecision and overwhelm prevent you from becoming the badass mama you’re meant to be. 

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Birth Prep for Solo Pregnant Mamas   Have you been thinking about the day you will give birth? I’m sure it’s mixed with excitement and trepidation. Being a single mom about to give birth isn’t easy. But you are strong and will make it through. Yet, there are some things to consider when you are…

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Mindset Shifts–How To Make Difficult Choices (Like Becoming A Single Mother by Choice) Feel Positive Do you ever wish you could shift your mindset and make becoming a single mom by choice feel like an empowered choice? When I talk to many women who are trying to decide whether to take the leap to single…

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