Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community - Single Moms by Choice, Infertility and Egg Donors
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Motherhood Reimagined

The SMC Community 

Badass women supporting each other in their

Single Mom by Choice (SMC) journey.

ARE YOU......

Are you overwhelmed by choices? 


Do you wish you had a non-judgemental sounding board to help you with all the decisions as well as the emotional ups and downs? 


Do you struggle to find people who really understand what you are going through? 


​Are you feeling time pressure to make a choice?


The Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community brings together single mothers by choice and those just embarking on their journey so that they can connect, learn and grow together as we bravely forge unconventional paths to motherhood. 


It's a safe space where we can:

Share our vulnerabilities,

Learn from our peers, and

Get guidance around the journey of single motherhood 

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Find your community

 Stop explaining yourself and feel heard

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Save time, energy and money

Quickly get your questions answered by guest experts and other women


Direct access to experts

Get your burning questions answered by experts

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Reimagine Motherhood

Be a part of shaping the future of unconventional paths to motherhood

Feel empowered

Surround yourself with other badass women so you feel confident about becoming a mother outside of partnership.

Grow into confident, grounded parents

Be surrounded by people who've get it and have your back

$9.97/month (first 100 people)

$14.97/month (second 100 people) 

Reg. $19.97

What Makes Our Community Special?

Motherhood Reimagined provides a safe space to share and learn from each other where your peers provide thoughtful advice and share their vulnerabilities to inspire and guide our journeys. 


Together we can show the world that becoming a mother outside of partnership isn't shameful or always a back up plan, but an awesome empowered path to becoming the mom you're yearning to be. 


We’re here to provide support and guidance so you can be the confident, badass, grounded mother you knew you were always meant to be.


Imagine feeling supported and seen throughout all aspects of your journey--not having to explain yourself and feel frustrated about your friends that genuinely want to help, but just don't really get it (and always manage to say the wrong thing). 

Wouldn’t it be amazing to be part of a group of women who've been there, who can help you process the roller coaster of emotions, listen beyond your confusion and help you make your life simpler and more full of joy no matter what stage of the SMC journey you are in?










Where inspiration meets practical guidance

There's no doubt, we are an awesome group of women who haven't let convention get in our way. Together we can do great things. I'll be here to guide us along the way to keep the conversations productive and kind.

  • Creating community has always been my passion. It's what I naturally do.


  • I've curated all the best experts and resources so you don't have to. 


  • I combine my training as a life coach, child birth educator, fertility doula and lawyer to inspire and guide intelligent, thoughtful conversations.

Inside The Community, You’ll

  • Get direct access to professionals and experts to get your burning questions answered


  • Experience exclusive content and conversations you can’t find anywhere else.


  • Find women like you so you can stop explaining yourself, feel heard 


  • Crowdsource advice and resources from women who have gone before you


  • Get answers to all of the burning questions you have, from thinking, to conceiving, and becoming a mom


  • Make better, more well-informed decisions about Single Motherhood by Choice.


  • Receive support and encouragement from other members who share your same goal of becoming a Single Mom by Choice.


  • Share experiences, inspiration, and tips that help you become a successful Single Mom by Choice.

How It Works

  1. Choose your membership level.

Basic and Premium membership levels available.


2. Join the community forum

Jump in and start connecting with others locally and around the world.


3. Make meaningful, lasting connections.

Whether you're just beginning your journey or already raising kids, you'll find connection, help others with your wisdom and make meaningful, lasting connections. 




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What people are saying

“Before joining, I wasn't ready to give up on partnership and I was worried about acceptance from family. Through the group I felt the empowerment that can come from this decision instead of it feeling like a consolation prize. And, I am moving forward with fertilizing some of my frozen eggs to try to make embryos. I thought I would do this eventually but I am ready to move forward with this."

“After feeling stuck for a year, Sarah helped me  manage my emotions, uncertainty and doubt and expertly guided me to a strong place where I finally felt ready to take the next steps to becoming an SMC.”

"You should definitely join! Meeting other women in the same situation was so incredibly helpful. It was an incredible safe space to be vulnerable and learn from other women in the same position.”










The SMC Community

Monthly or Annual Subscriptions


$97 per year or $9.97 month
  • First 100 People $4.97/month or $47/year
  • Second 100 People $5.97/month or $57/year
  • Community Forum
  • Monthly Ask Me Anything Calls
  • Guest Expert Interviews
  • Monthly Live SMC Panel Interviews


$197 per year or $19.97 per month
  • First 100 members $9.97/month or $97/year
  • Second 100 members $14.97/month
  • Community Forum
  • Monthly Ask Me Anything Calls
  • Monthly Live Guest Expert Interviews
  • Monthly Live SMC Panel Interviews


$97 per month
  • Everything in Premium
  • Stage specific Support group
  • Weekly Group Zoom Calls
  • Private community forum with classmates
  • Access to my most popular courses
  • Discounts on a la carte private coaching sessions

Upcoming Guest Experts

Beth Rivelli --Motherhood Story Coach

Debra Jacobs--Money Smart for Life

Betsy Freeman--Certified Nurse Midwife

Kathleen Hunt --Trusts and Estates










Why You Should Join?

How would it feel to hear panels of SMC’s answer questions on hot topics such as donor siblings, dating, having more than one child, embryo donation, juggling career and parenting and more? It’s so powerful to get more that one perspective on these topics and be able to ask them questions directly. 


And, most importantly, imagine having clarity about your choices: Not only dropping the doubt, but feeling empowered and clear on every step of the journey. 


But maybe you’re wondering if the Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community is right for you?


It's right for you if: 

  • You're yearning for more community and connection
  • You're at any stage of the SMC journey
  • You want to both contribute and learn from others
  • You want to connect with other women in your local area or in the same stage of the journey as you.
  • You love my podcast but would love to be able to ask my guest questions during a live interview.



It's not right for you if: 

  • You don't want to connect with women at any stage of the single mom by choice journey
  • You want to remain isolated throughout your journey
  • You don't believe in the power of community



Frequently Asked Questions

I’m just starting to explore becoming a mom on my own. Is this right for me?
Yes! The membership is for all phases of the journey to becoming a single mom by choice. Inside you'll get tons of support and answers to all your questions.  There's not better place to be while you are exploring and deciding what's next for you.
Is there a minimum amount of time I need to commit to being a member?
No! But we hope you'll stay indefinitely. If you join for a year, you are committed for a year. But if you join monthly, you can stop your subscription anytime.
Why is this different from the free SMC Facebook groups that exist?
Great question. Free Facebook groups are a wonderful resource.  But they aren't always moderated by a life coach trained in how to support you who is also cultivating a community culture. Plus, they don't have a way to find members by location and stage of the journey. They definitely don't offer guest expert interviews where you can personally ask the expert your questions. And, finally, they don't offer a chance to ask various women questions on a specific topic.
How does the membership differ from one-to-one coaching with Sarah?
The membership is included in all one-on-one coaching programs. However, you can also just subscribe to the Premium level membership to connect to others, and get access to guest experts. You will get a monthly group to ask me anything, but you will not receive one-on-one coaching as a premium member.
Will I be automatically charged every month?
If you chose a monthly membership, you will be automatically charged every month until you cancel. It's easy to cancel on your own, but feel free to reach out to us if you need help cancelling.
sarah kowalski, fertility doula, single mom by choice life coach


Single Mother by Choice, Life Coach, author and founder of Motherhood Reimagined.™

I’m Sarah Kowalski, Single Mom by Choice, Fertility Doula, Life Coach and author. I coach women who are struggling to conceive a child when it's not taking shape as planned -- either because of the lack of a partner or fertility issues.

My own arduous path to motherhood, inspired me to combine my expertise as a life coach, lawyer and patient's rights advocate with my passion for teaching mind body practices such as Feldenkrais and Qigong. Through this unique blend of training and experience, I help women quiet the voice of doubt and redefine what it means to be a mother so they can embrace their unique path to motherhood.

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