Single mom by Choice
Eulogy for Pacific Palisades –the Origins of Independence
Growing up in the Palisades, I was given the gift of independence from an early age. Whether it was roller skating down Bollinger Drive, organizing ‘camps’ for the younger kids on my block, or exploring the beaches and streets with my friends, I learned to trust myself and embrace freedom. That sense of autonomy planted…
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Understanding the Language of Choice Parenting
Understanding the Language of Choice Parenting Today, we’re diving into an important topic that affects many in our community: the terminology used to describe parents who choose to have children on their own. As language evolves and our understanding of diverse family structures grows, it’s crucial to stay informed and sensitive to the nuances in…
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Celebrating a Decade of Empowerment and Resilience: Lessons from Coaching Single Moms by Choice
Celebrating a Decade of Empowerment and Resilience: Lessons from Coaching Single Moms by Choice This year, as I reflected on the past decade of raising my son Aiden as a Single Mom by Choice (SMC), a parallel milestone emerged that has significantly shaped my professional and personal life. Around the same time that I began…
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Single Motherhood by Choice: Navigating the Path of Raising Donor-Conceived Children
Navigating the journey of single motherhood by choice comes with unique conversations, especially when it involves raising donor-conceived children. What are some of the pitfalls when raising donor-conceived kids? To delve deeper into this, I had the privilege of speaking with Wendy Kramer, co-founder of the Donor Sibling Registry. Wendy, who is also the mother…
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A Decade of Love, and Laughter: Lessons from 10 Years as a Single Mom By Choice
A Decade of Love, Laughter, and Lessons: Celebrating 10 Years as an SMC What are the lessons from 10 years as a single mother by choice? As I sit down to reflect, I’m amazed that it’s already been a decade since I gave birth to Aiden. It feels like just yesterday I was navigating the…
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How to Manage Doubts About Becoming A Single Mom by Choice
Overcoming Doubts About Becoming A Single Mom By Choice (“SMBC”) Embarking on the journey to become a single mom by choice is a bold, brave decision that many women contemplate. It’s a path filled with self-discovery, empowerment, and, admittedly, a fair share of internal debate. So, why do you continually feel yourself filled with doubt…
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What is a Single Mom by Choice?
What is a Single Mom by Choice? The term “single mom by choice” or “SMBC” often conjures up images of a woman who has it all figured out, confidently choosing motherhood on her own terms. And while that narrative certainly holds true for some, it doesn’t encompass the complex emotions and journeys that many of…
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A Guide to Choosing a Guardian as a Single Mom by Choice
How To Choose A Guardian As A Single Mom by Choice Navigating the journey of single motherhood often involves facing tough decisions, one of which is choosing a guardian as a single mom by choice. A guardian, in legal terms, is someone appointed to look after your child if you’re unable to do so due…
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Embracing Love in All Its Forms: A Single Mom’s By Choice Guide to Valentine’s Day
Single Mom’s By Choice Guide to Valentine’s Day Hello, it’s Sarah Kowalski, and today we’re revisiting a topic that hits home: the single mom’s by choice guide to Valentine’s Day. This day, often centered around romantic love, can be challenging when you’re not in a relationship. But fear not, because I’m here to help you…
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Will I Be Single Forever If I Have A Baby Alone?
Will I be single forever if I have a baby alone? It’s a question I get asked by numerous women. It’s a fear that often grips many of us contemplating this journey, looming larger than life, turning itself into an almost omnipresent shadow. I remember back when I was navigating the tangled pathway toward becoming…
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