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Early Triers Group

Ongoing support with women who are just beginning the journey to get pregnant as a single mom.

Early Triers Support Groups


You could figure it out alone, but it doesn't mean you have to.

A lot of single women dream of becoming a mother, but aren't sure they are ready to give up on the dream of partnership to become a mother on their own.

Does this sound familiar?

Are you worried about having enough support as you navigate getting pregnant?

Are you finding that some friends might not totally get it, or you're worried about boring them with the minutia of your choices and experiences?

Are you overwhelmed by the multitude of choices and looking for thought partners and support?

I've been there. Taking the leap to become a single mom by choice can be scary and confusing.

Motherhood Reimagined provides coaching and community to guide you through every stage, so you can stop spinning your wheels and move forward on your journey to motherhood with clarity. 



Save time, money and energy thru expert and peer support


Surround yourself with women who understand

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Build lasting community

Early Triers Support

$97 /month
  • A chance to have weekly checkins and support for accountability, emotional support, problem solving, strategy and self-care. Feel heard, gather resources and perspectives that make you realize you are not alone. 
  • Mondays 7:45-9:15 CST (Starts Jan 10th)
  • Weekly 90 minute Zoom group meetings
  • Private online classroom for weekly connection
  • Membership in the SMC Community Forum w/ Guest Experts and Panel Discussions
  • 1 Private coaching session (bonus if you sign up by Dec. 10th)

The Group Structure

We meet every week to support each other as you venture into becoming a single mother by choice. ⁠

It's a time to check in with each other, share your progress and setbacks and engage in meaningful conversation about all aspects of the process.  


It's also a time to work through various aspects of being a single mom with weekly reflection exercises and opportunities for coaching.


Each week you will walk away with new insights and actions you want to take based on those insights⁠

1. Connection

Gain clarity about what you truly want

A chance to connect and support each other through the ups and downs.

2. Share your progress and setbaacks


Get guidance about the logistics, hear what others are doing, feel prepared to ask your doctor pointed questions. 

3. Options and Action Plans

Understand the process and options.

What should you be thinking about as you prepare to take the leap?⁠

What are your options for getting pregnant?⁠

How to pick a sperm bank and sperm donor?⁠

How can you start improving your fertility?⁠

Where inspiration meets practical guidance

There's no doubt, we are an awesome group of women who haven't let convention get in our way. Together we can do great things. I'll be here to guide us along the way to keep the conversations productive and kind.

Creating communities has always been my passion. It's what I naturally do. Making families come together where love and support is always present.
I've curated all the best experts and resources so you don't have to. Thus making things easier for you and allowing resources more accessible for you
I combine my training as a life coach, child birth educator, fertility doula and lawyer to inspire and guide intelligent, thoughtful conversations.

My groups are an invitation to: 

  • Create a powerful network of women who understand what you are going through.
  • Learn from the collective wisdom of the group.
  • Think outside the box for ways to make single motherhood feel doable and even easy.
  • Process emotional concerns about not having a partner so that you can move forward feeling confident and empowered.  
  • Rewrite your narrative around motherhood and partnership so you can put down the fairytale and embrace new options with an open heart and excitement for what's possible.
  • Make a plan for how to get pregnant so that you're not swimming in overwhelm about the process.
  • ​Understand logistics ​such as sperm donor selection, fertility tests, insemination methods so you save time and reduce anxiety.



"Before I joined the Thinkers group I had many fears and unanswered questions. I was frustrated since I've been seriously contemplating what to do with my frozen eggs for over a year. Having Sarah’s expertise along with a place to process my emotions and concerns in a community of other women gave me momentum. In just one month of the group, I have decided to move forward with trying. I wished I had joined sooner!! It would have saved me a year of trying to figure it out on my own!"

— Lorena

"Before I started working with Sarah, I was really afraid to give up on partnership and parenting happening together. I knew it would take work to get to a place I wanted to go. Now, I’m pregnant and I have far less fear. This decision feels so right and my life feels full of love and support. Having Sarah by my side while I explored the path to single parenthood was invaluable. "

— Meg

"After feeling stuck for a year, Sarah helped me manage my emotions, uncertainty and doubt and expertly guided me to a strong place where I finally felt ready to take the next steps to becoming an SMC."

— S.E.
sarah kowalski, fertility doula, single mom by choice life coach


Single Mother by Choice, Life Coach, author and founder of Motherhood Reimagined.™

I’m Sarah Kowalski, Single Mom by Choice, Fertility Doula, Life Coach and author. I coach women who are struggling to conceive a child when it's not taking shape as planned -- either because of the lack of a partner or fertility issues.

My own arduous path to motherhood, inspired me to combine my expertise as a life coach, lawyer and patient's rights advocate with my passion for teaching mind body practices such as Feldenkrais and Qigong. Through this unique blend of training and experience, I help women quiet the voice of doubt and redefine what it means to be a mother so they can embrace their unique path to motherhood.

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Motherhood Reimagined reveals what happens when we release what's expected and embrace what's possible.

This honest and informative memoir examines the issues facing both single moms by choice and any woman facing fertility issues and third party reproduction.

Motherhood Reimagined answers many questions such as: Why would someone decide to have a baby alone? How does one come to terms with not having a genetic link to her child? How can infertility be a means for personal growth and spiritual awakening?

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You deserve to feel clear, confident and supported as you navigate your single mom by choice journey.

Don’t let indecision and overwhelm prevent you from becoming the badass mama you’re meant to be.

Get The Support You Deserve

Join a community of like minded women for discussions about single motherhood, fertility, egg donation, vacation IVF.

Our group is closed & private so only people in the group can see your posts.

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Taking The Leap To Single Motherhood?

Is time was running out to have a baby but you're still single?

Thinking about doing it alone?

Or maybe you’ve made the choice to have a baby alone but are finding the process overwhelming?

Get curated content for this stage of your journey.

I would love to hear from you.

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