SMC Thinkers Intensive support groups - Single Moms by Choice, Infertility and Egg Donors


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Thinkers Intensive Group To Finally Get Clarity

The 3 Month Thinkers Intensive is designed to help you not only gather relevant information, but to process your concerns, get clarity and make a plan. You will feel heard, gather resources and be ready to make a decision. 

Thinkers Support Groups


You could figure it out alone, but it doesn't mean you have to.


A lot of single women dream of becoming a mother, but aren't sure they are ready to give up on the dream of partnership to become a mother on their own.

Does this sound familiar?

Are you panicking because your biological clock is ticking but you haven't found the right partner yet? 

​Are you wondering whether to give up on dating for a while ​to become a mother on your own? ​ 

​Is the idea of using a sperm donor freaking you out?

Are looking for support and guidance as you research options and work through your concerns about becoming a single mom?

Are you looking for a thoughtful, supportive group of women who get it to develop long-terms bonds for years to come? 

I've been there. Taking the leap to become a single mom by choice can be scary and confusing.

Motherhood Reimagined provides coaching and community to guide you through every stage, so you can stop spinning your wheels and move forward on your journey to motherhood with clarity. 


Process your grief and concerns

Surround yourself with women who understand

Build lasting community
















Thinkers 3 Month Intensive


$375 (paid in full)

or $135/ per month


A chance to discuss and process the common concerns facing most women who are contemplating single motherhood. Find other women grappling with the same concerns and emerge feeling educated about the process and concerns. Feel heard, gather resources and perspectives that make you realize you are not alone. 

Weekly 90 minute Zoom calls with group

One Private 60 Minute Coaching Session

Courses:  How to Pick a Sperm Donor Course and Am I Ready to Be A Single Mom? 

Homework and Exercises to Cultivate Clarity

Private Class Group Forum

Membership in the SMC Community with Guest Expert Interviews, Panel Discussions and Content Library

New Class

Starting Sept. 20th

Zoom calls Mondays

5:45-7:15 PST/7:45-9:15 CST/8:45-10:15 EST

The Course Structure

In this course, we will dive deep into the question of whether or not to have a baby on your own to get clear about what you want and how to get there.⁠

Even if you are pretty certain that you want to take the leap to single motherhood, this course will give you a forum to work through your grief, and concerns, as well as helping you formulate a plan and next steps.⁠

1. What do I want?

Gain clarity about what you truly want.

We will work with recurring doubt, regrets, grief over not finding a partner.

How to stabilize in your clarity.⁠


2. Addressing Common Concerns

Dive into the details of being a single mom by choice

Financial–can I afford it?⁠
Can I handle it?⁠
Is it fair to my child?⁠
Concerns about donor conception. ⁠
Dealing with opinions of others–unsupportive family or others⁠
What does having a baby alone mean for future dating and partnerships?⁠

3. Options and Action Plans

Understand the process and options. 

What should you be thinking about as you prepare to take the leap?⁠

What are your options for getting pregnant?⁠

How to pick a sperm bank and sperm donor?⁠

How can you start improving your fertility?⁠
















Where inspiration meets practical guidance

It's not easy to navigate all your feelings, grief and concerns alone. 

  • I combine my training as a life coach, fertility doula and lawyer to help you navigate the emotional ups and downs. 


  • I show up for my client’s like nobody’s business. I’ve got your back for whatever might come up. 


  •  I help you quiet the voices of doubt and indecision that are dead set on holding you back.


My groups are an invitation to: 

  • Create a powerful network of women who understand what you are going through.


  • Learn from the collective wisdom of the group.


  • Think outside the box for ways to make single motherhood feel doable and even easy.


  • Process emotional concerns about not having a partner so that you can move forward feeling confident and empowered.  


  • Rewrite your narrative around motherhood and partnership so you can put down the fairytale and embrace new options with an open heart and excitement for what's possible.


  • Make a plan for how to get pregnant so that you're not swimming in overwhelm about the process.


  • ​Understand logistics ​such as sperm donor selection, fertility tests, insemination methods so you save time and reduce anxiety.

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Thinkers 3 month intensive

$375 for the course
  • Mondays 7:45-9:15 CST
  • Weekly 90 minute Zoom group meetings
  • Private online classroom for weekly connection
  • 1 Private coaching session
  • Membership in the SMC Community Forum w/ Guest Experts and Panel Discussions
  • Perfect for women who are contemplating single motherhood or just starting out but want to process parts of the choice

Sarah is the one support that never feels hard - she listens, she shines light and shows me possibilities, but she never judges.  When I've been full of self doubt, she's helped me reconnect to my desire to become a mom.  Her ability to be authentically herself - and allow you to feel completely safe in being authentically yourself is truly a special gift.  I truly can't imagine being on this journey without her."
"Sarah stands as a woman of grace and true warriorship.  She has walked the path and offers wise, kind service to other women just venturing or needing a hand on their way. Her intelligence matches her compassion, a mixture of grace and clarity that can midwife women to their true calling!"
"Sarah is a fantastic resource! Sarah offers a much-needed service to help guide women through this process. There are so many choices involved in this journey, from the medical options, to how to set your life up to care for a child, to the emotional issues.  Sarah is a treasure trove of information."










sarah kowalski, fertility doula, single mom by choice life coach


Single Mother by Choice, Life Coach, author and founder of Motherhood Reimagined.™

I’m Sarah Kowalski, Single Mom by Choice, Fertility Doula, Life Coach and author. I coach women who are struggling to conceive a child when it's not taking shape as planned -- either because of the lack of a partner or fertility issues.

My own arduous path to motherhood, inspired me to combine my expertise as a life coach, lawyer and patient's rights advocate with my passion for teaching mind body practices such as Feldenkrais and Qigong. Through this unique blend of training and experience, I help women quiet the voice of doubt and redefine what it means to be a mother so they can embrace their unique path to motherhood.

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Motherhood Reimagined reveals what happens when we release what's expected and embrace what's possible.

This honest and informative memoir examines the issues facing both single moms by choice and any woman facing fertility issues and third party reproduction.

Motherhood Reimagined answers many questions such as: Why would someone decide to have a baby alone? How does one come to terms with not having a genetic link to her child? How can infertility be a means for personal growth and spiritual awakening?

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You deserve to feel clear, confident and supported as you navigate your single mom by choice journey.

Don’t let indecision and overwhelm prevent you from becoming the badass mama you’re meant to be. 

Get The Support You Deserve

Join a community of like minded women for discussions about single motherhood, fertility, egg donation, vacation IVF.

Our group is closed & private so only people in the group can see your posts.

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