Sperm and Egg Donors

Infertility Made Me Stronger

infertility made me stronger, better mother

Infertility made me stronger–it’s true.  When I first learned I was infertile I would have never guessed that it would fundamentally change me for the better. After several years of hemming and hawing, I had only just come to terms with having a baby solo.  I didn’t have a partner yet, so it was time…

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6 Reasons You Didn’t Even Realize That You Need A ‘Fertility Doula’

what is a fertility doula?

Singles and couples struggling with infertility need support too. If you’ve ever tried to get pregnant when anything other than good old fashioned sex is involved, you know it can be confusing and taxing. A fertility doula can help. Both singles and couples who need to use artificial insemination, IVF, or a sperm donor, egg…

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6 Archetypes for Choosing a Sperm Donor

How should I choose a sperm donor or egg donor?

Women ask me all the time, “How should I pick a sperm donor (or egg donor)?” For many it can be one of the most daunting parts of becoming a single mom by choice. After all, picking a donor to provide half of the genes of your child is very significant. Many women contemplate a…

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Fresh Vs Frozen Eggs for Egg Donation Cycles

egg donor and egg donation options. Your own eggs aren't working. Pros and cons of fressh vs frozen donor eggs

Once you get to the decision to use an egg donor, you may already feel overwhelmed and exhausted by the process. It doesn’t help that you need to now decide how you want to approach egg donation. But one of the first decisions you will likely need to make is whether to use  Fresh or…

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Should My Friend Be My Sperm Donor?

What are the legal and emotional implications of using a known sperm or egg donor? What are the risks of using my friend to be my sperm donor?

The Legal And Emotional Considerations Of  Selecting A Friend As Your Sperm Donor So you want to use your friend as your known sperm donor? Most women I speak to about becoming a Solo Mom contemplate the use of a known sperm (or egg) donor at some point. I did. The reasons vary but usually…

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My Son is HERE! 100% Donor Baby

100% donor baby born via egg donor

I gave birth to my son on April 3rd, 2014.  He is simply perfect!  I can’t imagine mothering any other baby. There is no way to explain how much he truly feels like 100% my child. But he doesn’t actually share any genetic material with me. I had to use an egg donor to conceive.  Because…

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Who’s My Daddy? : Talking To Our Children About Their Donor Father

talking to children about sperm donor

Many Solo Moms live in absolute fear of a certain question: “Who’s my daddy?” It brings strong, resolute women to tears in an instant. Maybe it’s because it seems to come out in such strange and unsettling ways. I read about a sperm-donor-conceived child who told his mom that he did not have a dad…

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FREE WORKBOOK:
HOW TO PICK A SPERM DONOR

Choosing a sperm donor is a big decision, but it doesn't have to be overwhelming.
This free workbook will guide you step-by-step through the process of choosing the right donor for you.
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Wondering How To Discuss Different Family Structures With Your Child?

Has your child asked why his friends have no dad or why another friend has two moms?
This guide provides a framework for these difficult conversations. Easy tips to introduce the conversation. A compreensive list of books on the topic to share with your child. 
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by Sarah Kowalski
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Single and Pregnant?

Feeling overwhelmed? Wondering how to prepare and support yourself?
Get a free birth prep checklist and resource guide. Keep track of what you need. 
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by Sarah Kowalski
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